TheHook
and I: How I Became a Crocheter
(in honor of
National Crochet Month)
During the
summer of 2011 I decided to teach myself to crochet. Now, I’ve never considered
myself to be a “crafty” person. Oh, I’d loved doing arts and crafts as a child,
but when I grew up I decided I had no talent for it. Around college age a
friend taught me to knit. I started off enthusiastically, attempting to do a sweater
(really) for my first project. As I remember, I actually finished the back
panel, but then inertia (and pain in my shoulders and back) set in, and I never
finished it. That was the extent of my needlecraft for about forty years.
I began to
find myself attracted to crochet. Maybe it was the lacy, delicate patterns.
Maybe it was my fascination with how it could be done with only one hook. Maybe
it was the notion that it would be less physically straining. Even so, it still
took a while for the creative desire and the actual motivation to finally
collide. When my mother was in rehab after her hip surgery, I began to notice
that some patients there had beautiful afghans and quilts for their beds.
Others didn’t. And I began to think idly, someone who knew how to crochet could
make blankets for them. That’s when the lightbulb went on. Hey, I can learn to do that!
I didn’t
have anyone to teach me this time. No one I knew, at least close by, was a
crocheter. I seemed to remember that my mother had talked about doing it when
she was a girl, but now, stricken with dementia as she was, I couldn’t turn to
her as a resource. So I did what I always do: I looked for books. In the course
of that, I found a lot online—lessons, tutorials, diagrams, super-easy
patterns. I decided to start with the easiest thing possible: a single-crochet
dishcloth. Just a square. Just row after row of one stitch. What could be
easier, right?
I printed
out a pattern and enlisted my knitting friend to take me to her favorite yarn
shop, where I picked out my first skein of yarn, a soft, blue cotton, and the
proper size hook. I went back online and looked up tutorials: how to make a
starting chain. How to do the single-crochet stitch. I sat in front of the
computer practicing the slip knot, the chain stitch.
And how did
I make out? Here’s my first try at a dishcloth. Don’t laugh.
Okay, laugh. But it taught me
something. It showed me I didn’t know how to count stitches and handle the
turning chains. I was adding stitches to each row without realizing it. Clearly
it was much easier to count stitches in knitting than in crochet. But I was not
discouraged! I just knew I needed more learning and more practice. I went to my
local yarn shop for some pointers. Several dishcloths later I was doing much
better.
(But I still
use the hourglass cloth--it’s nice and thick and the single crochet
makes it effective and durable.)
In the
meantime I picked up several more projects--scarves, fingerless gloves, a
capelet.
I was surprising myself with how much I enjoyed this craft. I tried
to learn something new with each project. By that Christmas my mother was in
assisted living, and I found the opportunity to return to my original
intention: I decided to make a Christmas-themed lap throw to donate to the
memory unit.
And here it is: my first ripple afghan. It was very gratifying to
see it covering and warming a resident in her or his chair.
I’ve been happily crocheting now for a year and a half. I think I’ve
come a long way, but I know I have much more to learn, and I’m looking forward
to it. It’s the wonderful kind of hobby that you can keep on learning and
improving at. I expect to be a crocheter for many more years. So maybe I really
am a “crafty” person after all!